For most guys, the moment between noticing a woman and deciding that you want to approach her goes on way too long. Once you see a woman that appears to be alone, attractive, and appealing, head on over. Giving yourself too much time to consider all of the negative aspects of approaching this woman is going to rattle your confidence and make you appear weak and understated.
After all, she has probably noticed that you've been contemplating for how long now that you might possibly want to go over and talk to her? While you were sitting there wondering about how to approach her and what to say and whether she would think you were the right package and how well you have your art of conversation down some other guy stepped in and stole your thunder. Now if you approach you, you immediately are going up against competition.
Letting yourself wander all through your thoughts like that is highly self defeating. You can never go wrong by walking up to a woman and handing her a sincere, motivated compliment to make her day brighter. If it leads to enthralling conversation, then that's awesome. If it doesn't, you have just practiced a perfect dry run for the next woman that catches your eye.
Timing should never be rushed, just smooth. If you are sitting there in your seat squirming and thinking and hoping and talking yourself into something, then you are completely giving every other guy in there the upper hand without noticing. Once you have totally drained your confidence and you creep over and practically whisper a poorly rehearsed compliment, you have also fulfilled a self induced prophecy. By convincing yourself that going over is such a big risk you have also turned your demeanor into a big mushball of left over confidence, and your own actions will lead to denial, which in turn will lead to more messed up introductions.
Give yourself a confidence boost and take the power out of the possibility that she might turn you down. So what if she does? You hadn't had the time to convince yourself that she is the woman of your dreams, you have only decided to go pay a beautiful woman the best compliment that you could come up with.
Reaching outside of what we all tend to refer to as our comfort zone pushes us to be better men. Whether we are talking about picking up a beautiful woman or we are considering whether we can handle the next job interview, we know that pushing ourselves just a little harder can usually lead to awesome results with amazing potential. We also know that the longer we procrastinate and stop pushing ourselves the higher the risk is that we will stay stuck where we are. Then we have no one to blame for our unhappiness but us. And that is just too uncomfortable.
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