To score a date with someone can already be considered as an achievement but keeping the person's attention all throughout the date is another business. In order to keep the chick's attention on how you can be the knight in shining armor for her, you have to learn the basics in becoming a great date.
First and foremost tip to become a great date is to exude self-confidence. Loving yourself in the truest sense will have confidence oozing through your personality. Just be careful not to overdo it though because you do not want to be labeled as an airhead by your date.
Being yourself and being true to whoever you are is another way to become a great date. When going on a date, don't pretend to be someone else because it will just disappoint both you and your date. Please don't be desperate for your date's approval because it can go either way.
Let's face the fact that as men, we often stutter, stammer, and are lost for words when we go on a date with someone we extremely like. To remedy the situation of having the cat getting your tongue, you must practice and play in your mind the date, days before it actually happens. By doing this, you will feel more confident when D-day arrives.
Okay, back to the confidence issue. If you still feel that there is still something lacking in you, it would be good if you would list down the positive qualities about yourself and read through the list several times a day. When you do this, it will leave you with a glowing feeling about yourself that will last during the date and beyond.
You must also have reasonable expectations of the chick you are having the date with. Just like you, she is not perfect so don't expect your girl to have the sweetness of Jennifer Aniston or the sultriness of Angelina Jolie. By accepting her for who she is without any questions, you can also be comfortable with your own shortcomings.
It will also be good for you if you will not stereotype women because not all of them want marriage from you, just like the fact that not all men fear commitment. Dating enables you to know someone better on a more exclusive level thus respecting your date is of utmost concern, if you want her to respect you just the same. You should also treat your date as a human being and make her feel special as well.
Finally, you should remember that going on a date should be fun. Pressure should not be involved when dating; instead, you must have fun with each other and make the most of the opportunity to spend quality time alone. Sex should be the last thing to enter your mind because if it comes in the picture, not only will you lose a good date, you will also lose trust points. And mind you, women talk, so any wrong move you make can damage your future dates.
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