Marriage was never a guarantee for a person to be faithful. One might say "I am faithful" but does anybody know how true is it? It is only the people saying that could justify his statement. Talking about marriage, being faithful is something that requires complete honesty and total devotion to your spouse. It is a covenant agreement requiring couples not to commit adultery, never lust your neighbors and the like.
If only every married couple was faithful, there would not be divorce, there would not be an annulment and definitely there would not be a broken home. But true to being human, anything may happen under the sun. Normally, men are the ones doing the practice because they tend to look for a perfect wife. Painful as it is, some were just able to realize incompatibility only after marriage. This is where the question for faithfulness will now arise. How can we, as wives make sure that our husbands are going home straight after work? I have here some tips that I, myself tried and proven affective.
Tip #1. GOOD WIFE - To be able to be considered a good wife doesn't necessarily mean we have to do every household chores or something like that. We should at least be able to take care of our husband regardless of how busy we are, especially to those working wives. Never fail to ask him how great his day has been and try your best to ask him when he says "it was not good." Don't be contented with the answer but try to make at least a short conversation to show you care for him. This will serve as your good point of comparison just in case unfortunately, your husband is fooling around.
Tip #2. TRY TO BE A MASSEUSE - Surely we can give at least a quick but relaxing and pampering massage. Men get tired after work and suffer from lower back ache so we should do something about it. Be sure to make a trademark on your massage that will make your hubby excited to go home and have your palms in his body. If you will end up on bed, the better! Remember, they might resort to a massage parlor and on the process might come up with an expert flirty masseuse. Surely, you wouldn't like the idea?
Tip #3. STOP BEING A SPY - Never ask your hubby as if you're always having suspicion he's committing adultery or something like that. You might tell him, "I guess I was already on bed when you arrive, I was too dizzy to get up" He will then try to explain why he came late the other night and you can start asking him without letting her sense your motives. Be careful in throwing questions because men by nature are all sensitive when it comes to interrogation. Stop asking when you sense he's beginning to heat up but never stop thinking of your questions list reserved for the coming days.
Tip #4. MAINTAIN YOUR FIGURE - Women should always be figure conscious. Try to maintain your health and body figure by engaging yourself in some sports accessible to you, or some forms of exercise will do. I never said one should be deliciously sexy but at least, not too far from yourself when he met you. Men are naturally taking glances with those voluptuous women around but never stop them when they do so. Just let them do it and afterwards, ask them, "would you rather see me wearing that stuff?" That way, you'll be able to know what he is thinking.
Tip #5. OPEN COMMUNICATION - Make sure your communication is very much open and you guys, can say whatever that pleases you. It will definitely make your marriage work and never forget to make it a two way communication because one will never be a good speaker if he wouldn't be a good listener.
Hope these tips that were useful in me would help you as well. Just always remember, it always takes two to tango so if you have already did everything and he still throw his faithfulness outside the window, at least you can bitterly but proudly say to yourself you did your very best.
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