Ever heard of body builders complaining that their spouses are not positive about what they do? It may be a sad hard-to-believe story but whose cause can be traced. Let's first make points clear, women are always crazy about well built men. In fact they will do all within their power to posses such a guy. Therefore, a woman doing the contrary must have good reasons to do so. Below are some of the reasons that may cause your spouse's negative response to your effort of body building.
Take time and reflect how many times you've suffered injuries at the gym. If the number exceeds three within duration of less than six months, then your spouse has a right to complain. Look, as much as you are a body builder, remember that the body you are building carries a soul which you share with someone else. It will be selfish to focus on your aim even if it hurts your loved one. The only way to solve this problem is by staying safe. Please where possible avoid injuries as much as possible.
This may not only be for your spouse's good but for your own good too. Muscle gain is a game of consistency and the moment you are down with an injury, you lose the game. At the same time, take your spouse through what a body builder goes through. Let her know that the exercise carries with it some price, and an injury is just one of them. This will prepare her psychologically on what to expect from your exercise.
Your shape as a body builder may also make your spouse cross with you. If instead of gaining that appealing balanced shape you acquire the otherwise, then the problem starts. This is due to the way one does his training. For instance, one who does a lot of training that broadens the shoulder with no consideration for the lower part of the body may be calling for problems.
This is especially when at the time you met your spouse, you had a proportional body shape, however tiny it was. She will therefore view your exercise as the cause of your bad shape. Her resent will thus not be towards your exercise in particular but a fight to get back her proportional man. The permanent remedy is to do appropriate training. Your training should be that which leads to a balanced physique. This will restore the woman's confidence in your shape and actually please her that you are not only proportional but also muscular.
The third issue is the use of steroids. It is a normal process to hear people digging deep to know drugs taken by their partners. This may not be particularly on steroids only, but also with other drugs. The situation is worsened when your spouse is not informed about steroids. In fact at this point, she may propose that you take a bang which she understands than steroid which is a fuzzy concept to her. Transparency is the only way out to solve this issue. Before and when you are using steroids, discuss the issue with your partner. Be frank and state clearly the merits and demerits of steroids. If you feel that steroids will work for you, clearly tell her the facts which you feel are convincing. Always aim at convincing her since that will be like getting permission to use the drug.
One more thing that can cause problem is the balance between your exercise and your partner. If you are a type who wakes up and go straight to the gym till late in the day, with limited breaks just for meals, then your spouse is right to complain. She must see your training as a rival, one who denies her time to be with you. There is only one direct way to this, plan your training sessions and never let it make you blind. Have breaks and use this period to make your spouse happy.
In conclusion, women may appear nagging, but a closer look into the issue reveals that they only want the best for their men. It is therefore the responsibility of the body builder to make his woman happy via planned exercise.
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