There are so many reasons lovers break up and so many people who have gone through at least one breakup. Some are actually a good thing. Some are not! If you have ever been down this road, whether you caused the split or it was done to you, then you know it can be a very emotional time. I know a friend who just went through a very heart breaking separation and it did not seem like there was any hope for her and the man she was engaged with for several years. First off, if you are engaged for several years that already should put a flag up, someone is afraid of commitment. Another flag should go up if you argue so much that you spend more time giving the silent treatment than actually conversing with your lover. Besides, the silent treatment is probably the biggest tip that there is a serious problem with your relationship and if you plan on fixing it, then you better figure out a way to fight for it now.
Back to my friend, she was so heart broken that she couldn't sleep, eat or even sit and talk with anyone because her mind was so wrapped around her sorrow. I assisted her in searching online for some tips or answers and seeing if there was anyway to get someone else's perspective on how to get over a breakup. There was more information out there then either of us ever suspected. We found some amazing stories and even though it didn't seem that some of these couples were ever going to make it, they all seemed to testify that it was possible. So as her best friend, who hated to see her in such pain, I helped her to find some books and information that zeroed in on what she needed to win back her man.
Before beginning this, we definitely were ready to blame the man and figure he was the one that was making all the mistakes. But after our research and some heart wrenching tears, we discovered that it was both of their faults and there was so many ideas on what they could both do to heal this relationship. Actually, after reading this book and going over all the information with her, I am ready to get into a serious relationship myself. I know now that there is a way to teach people how to make love work and when it is not working you can and should fight for it.
My friend did get back with her man; who is now her husband! It also taught him how to commit among so many other things to make their love last. So battle for your love and if it is meant to be, it will be.
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